Resources

For the overthinkers, people pleasers, and LGBTQIA+ adults who are tired of second-guessing themselves, feeling guilty for having needs, or keeping the peace at their own expense.

These free resources are here to help you understand your patterns, practice something different, and have actual tools to come back to when knowing better and doing better feel like two very different things.

Cover of the free Boundary Scripts guide for people who feel guilty saying no from Excelsior Mental Health.

Boundary Scripts for People Who Feel Guilty Saying No

Practical scripts for setting boundaries with family, friends, and at work, plus what to say when someone pushes back. Made for the moments when you know you need a boundary but can't figure out how to say it without immediately feeling guilty afterward.

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Learning to Trust Yourself

A mini workbook for chronic second-guessers. Use guided prompts to notice where self-doubt shows up, separate your own voice from everyone else's, and practice making decisions without needing constant reassurance.

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